*i will not be using names for privacy* hahah yeah right...
lets start from the beginning ~ a very good place to start! haha sorry couldn't help myself! ok no really. there is this boy, cam, and we were friends in junior high then had a falling out in highschool due to the relationships we were both in at the time. Then this summer we started talking again and we TOTALLY hit it off! it was fun, a crush!! ok then all of a sudden he stops talking to me. just like that. when i finally talked to him weeks later he said that his grandma was sick blah blah blah so i was like, "huh maybe i prejudged him to be an assface." but no. i was right all along assface will always be an assface! its just inevtiable! and this is why:
Assface: hey you! blah blah blah things going good?
ME: hey yeah things are good blah blah blah what do you want? to hangout?
Assface: yeah school is good but i have lots of homework so not tonight but tommorow we could hang out =)
ME: yeah i have stuff tonight but tommorow would be fun
Assface: yeah =)
end of convo. so tonight i hear nothing from him, no phone call or text. am i really that suprised? i guess not but he is like a frickin bipolar crush!!!!!!what am i suppose to do with that?! im just so not into hot and cold guys. AND why does he have to text with so many smiley faces?! i hate the smiley faces.
lets speak now of a BREED OF LAZY DATERS. Kellie of course coined this term and i couldn't agree more! lets take for example the whole situation with assface. he KNOWS that i will call or text him (becuase when looking back i am the one who always is actually making any plans, he just sits there waiting, ugh!) to hang out EVEN THOUGH he was the one who wanted to hang out. if i had called him then i am breeding the lazy dater. a breed that is becoming more apparent and quite dreadful. now let me explain one thing here. i am not one of those girls who just sits around and waits to be asked to dance, if im not getting asked in the first 20 seconds of the song then i'll go right out there and ask someone to dance. in other words im not the most convential when it comes to dating, BUT i can not stand another minute breeding a lazy dater. "man up already" (thanks kellie again!)
so here is the critical question: "whats a girl to do?!" i have theories of how to make this better, some better then others, but right now i just say SCREW IT! im tired of waiting around for a dumb guy! like are you joking ive been doing that since i was 16 years old!! im done with it. i think that i should focus on me and if he has a problem with that that SCREW IT! if anyone has a problem then SCREW IT! im gunna feel like a rockstar =) <----...stupid smiley faces.
“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.”~ Dr. Seuss
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rock on sista!
here is the thing, you may think that this sounds depressing and all 'stay at home and wait-ish' but its not! GO OUT! MEET PEOPLE! HAVE FUN! MOST IMPORTANT, BE YOURSELF! but dont.. ask anyone out! dont plan things. When a guy comes along and sees that you are a strong, awesome and most importantly, confident girl and you know how to have fun , he will not be able to resist. and then the magic will happen, he will ask you out! which is what you wanted all along!! and i know it takes time sweetie, and believe me, i know there are a billion and one frogs out there before you find one that has a few less warts then the rest... but just be you. and you will be amazing!
and pass it on! NO MORE BREEDING LAZY DATERS!!!
Be the person you want to meet and date - be wary of calling names especially the termed you use - it might just come back around to get you!
well assface already knows hes an assface, its not like a secret that im trying to keep from him. i told him straight up. i think im pretty much moved onto bigger things =)
charlene has a point though.
Maybe listen to Pres. Eyring's talk and then re-evaluate what is said - Thanks Kellie
good plan. lets post it.
lets not post it. this is the story of a guy whos a jerk. if he has a blog about me, a girl whos a jerk, then so be it. its not like i have this blog so that i am politically correct, this is a blog about my life, and my life is not going to be censored to the needs of others.
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